Boys, if you want to contact me you can contact me via Auntie Bev or www.itsfinished.com. I will reply as soon as possible. Don’t worry about getting into trouble, I will not tell anybody if you do not want me to.

Your mum agreed with the judge that if you ever want to contact me she will give you my telephone number and address. She writes to me four times a year to let me know how you all are. She agreed this in court too, so she has my address.

If you are a dad who has problems like mine and want to talk to somebody or need advice then please visit www.itsfinished.com. Please note that I can no longer accept individual e-mails through this site as I have had to draw a line under what happened to me. Thank you to everybody who has supported me and for all the e-mails of good luck that I have received.